Aimee Robb Harlow was born and raised in Norman, Oklahoma, and has lived in Oklahoma City with her husband David Harlow for over 30 years. They have two children, Kristina and William. Harlow recently retired from a 33-year career in high tech banking consulting and sales finishing with FIS Global Banking Solutions. She has spent more than 20 years supporting the community and volunteering for arts and education initiatives, serving on many boards, including Allied Arts, Oklahoma Contemporary, Oklahoma City Ballet, OCU Societies, and OU Honors College Board of Visitors, and is co-chair of the 2021 United Way Campaign. She is active in the Pi Beta Phi Alumnae Club. She earned a BBA in Marketing from the University of Oklahoma.